veronikawithak
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Wow so much progress! Way to go everyone! Keep up the hard work.
I get you.Oh also another low buy technique of mine is to try and find dupes for more expensive items im using in the drugstore - boots or superdrug over here.
I know for some that can be a slippery slope of trying to get back into drugstore makeup but carry on buying all the high end anyway, but I've had a few beauty scenarios recently that have made me realise that i need to balance my scope out a bit more.
for example, ive found that my favourite mascara to use is a 17 at boots one that isnt even all that dramatic - but i feel most like myself in it, the most comfortable - so why do i feel the need to push myself for a bigger/better/bolder look if you get me? i'm fine with a £6.29 mascara.
i think we all need a bit of a reality check sometimes, to check in with our real selves, because it's easy to see everyone dolled up to the nines on instagram and think that that's the new normal, when in fact that's probably what me or my friends might look like if we dressed up on a weekend night out but really, look at my day to day life - i'm practically a country bumpkin! so i dont need to be aiming for 'perfection'.
so in low buy terms, i'd rather try out a few more budget mascaras than keep on trying premium ones, as ysl faux cils smudged on me, chanel imitible intense smudged on me, chanel volume smudged on me, and a lot of mac formulations irritate my eyes, so if teh new 17 mascara i have - va va voom waterproof - smudges on me, which it hasn't but it isn't waterproof - it's not so bad as it was £3.14 compared to a £20something high end mascara.
i think the thing that annoyed me most about my beauty spending last year was the amount of money wasted on products that just plain didn't work for me.
it's not that i didn't do enough research before buying, just that ultimately i was doing it too often.
so now i'm hoping that i can talk myself out of more purchases before i even get to the point where im stood in the store or sat at the checkout online considering it
(or getting my low buy peeps to help me out!)
so far so good
sometimes a brown eyeshadow is just a brown eyeshadow, ya know!?
Thank you everyone so much! I know I've totally disappeared since my last post, and I want you all to know how much I truly appreciate your kindness.So sorry for your losses, Alysse.
Thank you everyone so much! I know I've totally disappeared since my last post, and I want you all to know how much I truly appreciate your kindness.
I've been getting through everything and it has been getting better. I guess time will eventually heal everything.