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nephthys__x
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i think i only find it personally awkward cos ive put on loads of weight.. but if its someone you've been with a while etc, ask em how they like it n i agree with being able to cheat ha, makes it so much easier for us 
IDontKnowMomo
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Yess, after three months of not being on top due to pelvic fractures, I finally was able to again last night.
Mission accomplished
Mission accomplished
florabundance
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I'd say more of a circular motion with the hips
but don't blame my technique if you do break his dick LMAO
Originally Posted by Alibi
We need some naughty topic like that! Cmon, thats about time huh? 
Florabundance, I dont understand the whole grinding thing... Like gring up and down or back and forth? Wont it break his dick lmao? |
I'd say more of a circular motion with the hips
X4biddenxLustX
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ROFL, at least his buddy would of died being happy!
| Originally Posted by florabundance
I'd say more of a circular motion with the hips
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ROFL, at least his buddy would of died being happy!
kdemers1221
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haha i totally agree. sex has to be one of the most unflattering acts for both parties. everyone looks totally ridiculous all in the name of an orgasm. haha
| Originally Posted by Shimmer
what position doesn't feel awkward? |
haha i totally agree. sex has to be one of the most unflattering acts for both parties. everyone looks totally ridiculous all in the name of an orgasm. haha
chocolategoddes
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I remember hearing about a girl breaking a guy's dick during sex.
How the hell does that happen? Penis isn't an actual bone.
| Originally Posted by florabundance
I'd say more of a circular motion with the hips
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I remember hearing about a girl breaking a guy's dick during sex.
How the hell does that happen? Penis isn't an actual bone.
NutMeg
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Alas, Wikipedia isn't quite as informative about this as it usually it.
Penile Fracture
Basically, if you have a really hard erection and the penis suffers some sort of blunt force trauma (like coming down on it wrong while grinding
) then the membrane that surrounds the erectile tissue can ben ruptured. So, massively swollen (and not in a good way), and bruised penis, and potentially damage to the urethra. Not nice, very painful, and usually needs surgery to be repaired.
Penile Fracture
Basically, if you have a really hard erection and the penis suffers some sort of blunt force trauma (like coming down on it wrong while grinding
Ziya
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Anyone here try reverse cowgirl? its a good alternative for girls self conchy about tummy or floppy flying boobs. Bf loves insane view..he says its like watching porn. He usually puts his hands on my hips to help guide me but god if I had a dollar for every time I've come down wrong on him mid thrust! it hurts like a bish!!
lol I think the movement is much more natural this way..straddle his thighs with your head facing his toes and and you kneeling on your knees, now slide up and down while havingyour back at about 45 degree angle..try sitting up more or leaning towards his legs, see whta he likes..
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i did this once... his penis was swollen for a day afterwards! not cool and very painful for poor hubby!
| Originally Posted by Ziya
Anyone here try reverse cowgirl? its a good alternative for girls self conchy about tummy or floppy flying boobs. Bf loves insane view..he says its like watching porn. He usually puts his hands on my hips to help guide me but god if I had a dollar for every time I've come down wrong on him mid thrust! it hurts like a bish!!
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i did this once... his penis was swollen for a day afterwards! not cool and very painful for poor hubby!
hello_my_apple
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lol AWWWWW poor thing!
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| Originally Posted by LMD84
i did this once... his penis was swollen for a day afterwards! not cool and very painful for poor hubby! |
brokenxbeauty
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I think the best way to improve being on top is practice!
I was bad at being on top as I didn't do it often, but since I've been with my current boyfriend and have been doing it more, I feel like I do a pretty damn good job!
Confidence also plays a huge role in being on top. If you feel sexy, you will be sexy. Just go wild and have fun! Try different techniques until you find your rhythm and what feels good for you.
I was bad at being on top as I didn't do it often, but since I've been with my current boyfriend and have been doing it more, I feel like I do a pretty damn good job!
Confidence also plays a huge role in being on top. If you feel sexy, you will be sexy. Just go wild and have fun! Try different techniques until you find your rhythm and what feels good for you.
brokenxbeauty
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And I totally agree! Reverse cowgirl is loads of fun and gives your man a great view!
He can guide you with his hands on your hips, or spank you (my favorite! lol)!!
| Originally Posted by Ziya
Anyone here try reverse cowgirl? its a good alternative for girls self conchy about tummy or floppy flying boobs. Bf loves insane view..he says its like watching porn. He usually puts his hands on my hips to help guide me but god if I had a dollar for every time I've come down wrong on him mid thrust! it hurts like a bish!!
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And I totally agree! Reverse cowgirl is loads of fun and gives your man a great view!
BeccalovesMAC
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Being on top is my favorite. Each guys is different and likes their girls to move differently. My man likes having sex standing up. This is a huge problem. My man is 6'4 and I am 5'0. I usually have to wear heels or he has to prop me up with phone books(seriously). lol But its all worth it.
Kragey
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When I was young and insecure, I practiced on a pillow. That REALLY helped! You really want to do just your bottom because it will tire you out less and you won't be lifting and dropping as much weight on him. I personally think it looks better, too.
If you have a sex toy with a base and you're comfortable using it, you can strap it down to a pillow or a chair and practice that way. You should be able to "feel" the dildo moving in and out of you...I say that because dildos often feel more "synthetic" than an actual penis, so it's easier to tell if you're actually bouncing properly.
One thing that really helps me, because I'm petite is to lean forward and put my hands on the guy's chest, or if I want to go slow and deep, I lean forward and put my hands near his shoulders while I kiss him. If he's an ass man, he'll probably love it if you face away from him and lean forward; this makes it easy to be "on top," cause you just slide back and forth. Leaning is generally great for women who like to have their g-spot stimulated.
I've also had sex with women while wearing a strap-on (erm, sorry, I guess I'm getting a little TMI here, LOL! but I want to help...), and because I was usually in the more dominant role, I would usually have them stay relatively still while I pumped MY hips up and down. This is one of my favorite positions with guys, too: I'm on top, but they do the work.
A variation that I think looks silly, but every man I've been with has loved, is when I squat over top of him, balance my hands on his chest, and move up and down with my bent legs. It's great exercise, too, kinda like doing squats. XD
You don't have to "just bounce," either; you can also grind or rotate your hips. I've also teased men by doing a bunch of shallow "bounces," then a deep one....rinse, repeat. They usually got ticked off after a while and gave me what-for. Not that I was complaining.
If you're both sitting on a bed with a headboard, or a chair or a couch, you can use the furniture to help you lift your weight up and down.
If you have a sex toy with a base and you're comfortable using it, you can strap it down to a pillow or a chair and practice that way. You should be able to "feel" the dildo moving in and out of you...I say that because dildos often feel more "synthetic" than an actual penis, so it's easier to tell if you're actually bouncing properly.
One thing that really helps me, because I'm petite is to lean forward and put my hands on the guy's chest, or if I want to go slow and deep, I lean forward and put my hands near his shoulders while I kiss him. If he's an ass man, he'll probably love it if you face away from him and lean forward; this makes it easy to be "on top," cause you just slide back and forth. Leaning is generally great for women who like to have their g-spot stimulated.
I've also had sex with women while wearing a strap-on (erm, sorry, I guess I'm getting a little TMI here, LOL! but I want to help...), and because I was usually in the more dominant role, I would usually have them stay relatively still while I pumped MY hips up and down. This is one of my favorite positions with guys, too: I'm on top, but they do the work.
A variation that I think looks silly, but every man I've been with has loved, is when I squat over top of him, balance my hands on his chest, and move up and down with my bent legs. It's great exercise, too, kinda like doing squats. XD
You don't have to "just bounce," either; you can also grind or rotate your hips. I've also teased men by doing a bunch of shallow "bounces," then a deep one....rinse, repeat. They usually got ticked off after a while and gave me what-for. Not that I was complaining.
If you're both sitting on a bed with a headboard, or a chair or a couch, you can use the furniture to help you lift your weight up and down.
claralikesguts
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OMG froggie style! it does look silly but damn it feels good
and it gets my quads burning in no time.. for sure a win-win position.
| Originally Posted by Kragey
A variation that I think looks silly, but every man I've been with has loved, is when I squat over top of him, balance my hands on his chest, and move up and down with my bent legs. It's great exercise, too, kinda like doing squats. XD |
OMG froggie style! it does look silly but damn it feels good
shimmyshimmyya
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I HATE being on top...the only way it's comfortable for me is when we're chest to chest and I'm moving my pelvis up and down...the boo only wants it that way when I'm on top.
I think I might suffer from Pretty Girl Syndrome (pretty girls just lay there). I'm sorry...I like to be the one being effed, not the one doing all the effing!!
I think I might suffer from Pretty Girl Syndrome (pretty girls just lay there). I'm sorry...I like to be the one being effed, not the one doing all the effing!!
Shadowy Lady
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Being on top is my fave position actually. I like different variations of it but I prefer it when we're both sitting up. Somehow it feels more natural for me that way, so I can let loose and have tonesa fun. We have our "sex chair" in the house which we use mostly for this purpose, lol!
