Sorry if this is inappropriate, but...

[luxury]

I am. lol.

 

[Funtabulous]

 

[mahonereh]

Lots of great advice in this thread. Can't wait to see my BF and try it all out. lol!

I don't like being on top because I just can't get a rhythm down. If he's sitting on the couch or chair it's a little easier.

 

[ellapink]

Thank you all for responding and for all the great advice!

 

[MissVanity]

Great thread! will be def trying out some of the little tricks you girls have talked about!

 

[MAG0TS0UUL]

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Originally Posted by M.A.C. head. I used to be bad at it, but I just got more in tune and figured out what works for us. I HATED being on top with previous partners, and I even hated it when I first tried it with my husband, but now we love it! I'm a heavy set girl, so all that bouncing and shit was just not cute. But I learned how to get my grind on, and now we do cow girl all the time! With woman on top, I think it's a little bit of a mental thing for some. The person on top is seen as the one who is in control, so when a person who is on top is not comfortable being there, it can put a damper on the attempt. Just relax and get comfortable and don't jump on and start acting like you know what you're doing, just go slow and learn.

so true! i used to date this guy who used to be overweight, and now he's actually in REALLY good shape. (better than me, cause im freaking overweight -_-) buttttt, he hated being on top. he never got over his body issues, and he was always asking me if he looked better than my exes. (which turned me off.) i always had be to on top, which was fine in the bed, but i hated it in the car because i felt like i was gonna break it :-X its just crazy how it happens to guys too!