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Medgal07

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Oh it's gorgeous!!!! What a rich color. Brought tears to my eyes!
 
NaomiH

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CrimsonQuill157 said:
Hey ladies. Today has been rough, for sure.  I went over to the temp agency and I have a bad feeling the place I was wanting to work at is not currently hiring. I'm not really sure what to do. The only other place hiring through them is awful - most of my friends left there for this other place that I'm trying to get into.  Talked to Rob on his way to work and he doesn't know what to tell me. Then we find out a mutual friend has just been kicked out of his house and is couch surfing. He said he was thinking about going in on a place with our friend. Normally I'd be ok with this, but we've talked about moving in together soon... which would totally mess up those plans. I'm glad he wants to help his friend but I don't think it's fair that he's throwing our plans under the bus, and I'm feeling left out in the cold. Then I get home and talk to Dad to find out what happened. Should have results in 24 hours. And I get another lecture. Yesterdays was about how lazy I am and that life is more than netflix and a cell phone, today, I tell him I'm close to working and that's wrong too! He keeps dragging stuff up from several years ago and I've just about had it. It's all I can do not just hang up on him. With him not being well I'm trying to just let it go but after years and years of his bs I'm getting to a breaking point. I'm the only one of his kids that still talks to him and I really don't want to go no contact but this is getting ridiculous. I went to see Selma and it was wonderful, but I couldn't do it justice because I couldn't get my mind off of the earlierp arts of the day and kept having anxiety attacks.
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I hope you're able to get in where you want to get in. I'd say maybe talk to Rob about your feelings and see what he says. If ya'll had plans,it doesn't seem right to me for him to go off elsewhere. I do sat it's nice of him to want to help his friend though. I'm sorry you're dad is giving you such a hard time about everything and hope he lays off of you soon so that you no longer feel that going no contact is the only option. :hug:
 
NaomiH

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Medgal07 said:
:crybaby: [COLOR=0000FF]Oh it's gorgeous!!!!  What a rich color.  Brought tears to my eyes![/COLOR]
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Right? Why the heck would they discontinue a total show stopper like that? They have nothing else like it besides maybe Orgueil, but that's a totally different formula so it doesn't count. Lol
 
CrimsonQuill157

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NaomiH said:
I hope you're able to get in where you want to get in. I'd say maybe talk to Rob about your feelings and see what he says. If ya'll had plans,it doesn't seem right to me for him to go off elsewhere. I do sat it's nice of him to want to help his friend though. I'm sorry you're dad is giving you such a hard time about everything and hope he lays off of you soon so that you no longer feel that going no contact is the only option.
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Yeah I'm really glad he wants to help, but it always seems to be at the cost of plans with me. Always. It gets old. I feel like I never come first to him.

I do too. Part of the reason I delayed applying was because he got sick and I was prepared to go be with him if things got worse. So I feel like no matter what I do I'm wrong.
 
Vineetha

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CrimsonQuill157 said:
Hey ladies. Today has been rough, for sure.  I went over to the temp agency and I have a bad feeling the place I was wanting to work at is not currently hiring. I'm not really sure what to do. The only other place hiring through them is awful - most of my friends left there for this other place that I'm trying to get into.  Talked to Rob on his way to work and he doesn't know what to tell me. Then we find out a mutual friend has just been kicked out of his house and is couch surfing. He said he was thinking about going in on a place with our friend. Normally I'd be ok with this, but we've talked about moving in together soon... which would totally mess up those plans. I'm glad he wants to help his friend but I don't think it's fair that he's throwing our plans under the bus, and I'm feeling left out in the cold. Then I get home and talk to Dad to find out what happened. Should have results in 24 hours. And I get another lecture. Yesterdays was about how lazy I am and that life is more than netflix and a cell phone, today, I tell him I'm close to working and that's wrong too! He keeps dragging stuff up from several years ago and I've just about had it. It's all I can do not just hang up on him. With him not being well I'm trying to just let it go but after years and years of his bs I'm getting to a breaking point. I'm the only one of his kids that still talks to him and I really don't want to go no contact but this is getting ridiculous. I went to see Selma and it was wonderful, but I couldn't do it justice because I couldn't get my mind off of the earlierp arts of the day and kept having anxiety attacks.
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Oh Crimson, so sorry you had a crappy day!! Given time everything will start looking up again! It's a matter of days before you find a good employment!! I hope your father gets some good news soon and then you wouldn't feel so conflicted about that at least!And as for moving in probably he just didn't know how to say no and must be thinking it's just temporary!! I hope everything works out for the better soon!! Hang in there :hug:
 
CrimsonQuill157

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Vineetha said:
Oh Crimson, so sorry you had a crappy day!! Given time everything will start looking up again! It's a matter of days before you find a good employment!! I hope your father gets some good news soon and then you wouldn't feel so conflicted about that at least!And as for moving in probably he just didn't know how to say no and must be thinking it's just temporary!! I hope everything works out for the better soon!! Hang in there
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Thanks V. See, Chris didn't ask, Rob just offered, without telling me first.
 
Dolly Snow

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CrimsonQuill157 said:
Hey ladies. Today has been rough, for sure.

I went over to the temp agency and I have a bad feeling the place I was wanting to work at is not currently hiring. I'm not really sure what to do. The only other place hiring through them is awful - most of my friends left there for this other place that I'm trying to get into.

Talked to Rob on his way to work and he doesn't know what to tell me. Then we find out a mutual friend has just been kicked out of his house and is couch surfing. He said he was thinking about going in on a place with our friend. Normally I'd be ok with this, but we've talked about moving in together soon... which would totally mess up those plans. I'm glad he wants to help his friend but I don't think it's fair that he's throwing our plans under the bus, and I'm feeling left out in the cold.

Then I get home and talk to Dad to find out what happened. Should have results in 24 hours. And I get another lecture. Yesterdays was about how lazy I am and that life is more than netflix and a cell phone, today, I tell him I'm close to working and that's wrong too! He keeps dragging stuff up from several years ago and I've just about had it. It's all I can do not just hang up on him. With him not being well I'm trying to just let it go but after years and years of his bs I'm getting to a breaking point. I'm the only one of his kids that still talks to him and I really don't want to go no contact but this is getting ridiculous.

I went to see Selma and it was wonderful, but I couldn't do it justice because I couldn't get my mind off of the earlierp arts of the day and kept having anxiety attacks.
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I am really sorry your dad is giving you hassle. I have to agree with V & hopefully your dad hears good news.
You'll find a good job, keep looking. It is just around the corner, I can feel it!
I hope your day gets brighter and tomorrow is a better day for you
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CrimsonQuill157

CrimsonQuill157

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Dolly Snow said:
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I am really sorry your dad is giving you hassle. I have to agree with V & hopefully your dad hears good news.
You'll find a good job, keep looking. It is just around the corner, I can feel it!
I hope your day gets brighter and tomorrow is a better day for you
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Thank you.
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PinayGator

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CrimsonQuill157 said:
Hey ladies. Today has been rough, for sure.

I went over to the temp agency and I have a bad feeling the place I was wanting to work at is not currently hiring. I'm not really sure what to do. The only other place hiring through them is awful - most of my friends left there for this other place that I'm trying to get into.

Talked to Rob on his way to work and he doesn't know what to tell me. Then we find out a mutual friend has just been kicked out of his house and is couch surfing. He said he was thinking about going in on a place with our friend. Normally I'd be ok with this, but we've talked about moving in together soon... which would totally mess up those plans. I'm glad he wants to help his friend but I don't think it's fair that he's throwing our plans under the bus, and I'm feeling left out in the cold.

Then I get home and talk to Dad to find out what happened. Should have results in 24 hours. And I get another lecture. Yesterdays was about how lazy I am and that life is more than netflix and a cell phone, today, I tell him I'm close to working and that's wrong too! He keeps dragging stuff up from several years ago and I've just about had it. It's all I can do not just hang up on him. With him not being well I'm trying to just let it go but after years and years of his bs I'm getting to a breaking point. I'm the only one of his kids that still talks to him and I really don't want to go no contact but this is getting ridiculous.

I went to see Selma and it was wonderful, but I couldn't do it justice because I couldn't get my mind off of the earlierp arts of the day and kept having anxiety attacks.
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I'm sure you'll find a job soon, looking for employment is always a stressful experience.

It's frustrating that some people really don't analyze the picture as a whole when they make decisions. Ever. I'm an overly critical person, so I would have considered how that decision would effect myself, my loved ones, the neighbors, people I don't even know but are in the area, etc. It'll be a hard conversation to have, but you'll want to both be on the same page before you end up moving in together down the road.

I'm sorry your dad is bombarding you with issues, I hope it's just the stress of waiting for results and just lashing out as a way to cope. I'm praying everything goes well for you and your family, things WILL get better! It's always darkest before the dawn. <3
 
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