What Trend Do You Wish Would Go Away

[ChloeisCrazy]

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Originally Posted by xoxprincessx0x Please burn Crocs.

I agree!! I really dislike crocs

 

[sexychefva804]

It's nice to dream about, the unfortunatly most mothers really don't have the time, even if they have the desire to.[/quote]

I'm sorry, I don't agree, I think that the new generation moms are surrounded by so many ways that they may seek relaxation and maintenance without losing themselves to motherhood or "wifedom". There are small things that can be done, from buying bath salts at the dollar store, a pedi for the summertime (which I see many moms, who should be tending to their children do anyway) or having a skin care regimen. Though it's desirable, not everyone has the money to get a facial or new outfit, but its still important to know that you are a woman first, and a mother or wife secondly. I'm no June Cleever: pearls, heels, and pot roast in the oven, I'm Denae, a chef, mom, wife, and freak in the bedroom.
But first I am Denae, soaking in her Dollar store lavender bath water.

 

[cupcake_x]

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Originally Posted by sexychefva804 It's nice to dream about, the unfortunatly most mothers really don't have the time, even if they have the desire to. I'm sorry, I don't agree, I think that the new generation moms are surrounded by so many ways that they may seek relaxation and maintenance without losing themselves to motherhood or "wifedom". There are small things that can be done, from buying bath salts at the dollar store, a pedi for the summertime (which I see many moms, who should be tending to their children do anyway) or having a skin care regimen. Though it's desirable, not everyone has the money to get a facial or new outfit, but its still important to know that you are a woman first, and a mother or wife secondly. I'm no June Cleever: pearls, heels, and pot roast in the oven, I'm Denae, a chef, mom, wife, and freak in the bedroom. But first I am Denae, soaking in her Dollar store lavender bath water.

I never said that they shouldn't, or that ALL mothers don't have time to.
I completely agree with you. Mothers SHOULD be able to do all that and have "me" time. But I do have a point that a lot of mothers simply don't have time. My mother is a single mother who works full time, goes to school AND homeschools her children, not even counting that she has to clean, drive her children to work, etc... And while I really wish she did, she doesn't have the time to lock herself in the bathroom and do a spa treatment.

 

[cupcake_x]

Double post, sorry.

 

[Kuuipo]

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Originally Posted by xoxprincessx0x Please burn Crocs.

I was wondering if Crocs are biodegradable or will there be landfuls of disgarded Crocs under the earth for all eternitiy?

 

[stargurl84]

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Originally Posted by GlamYOURUs Stupid waist belts on ever blouse, sweater, dress etc etc. (DIE JUST DIEEEEE) Fake purses (Oh dear God lets not go there mmkay) Scarfs with tank tops (pardon my lingo here but wtf is that? You are either hot or cold) :\ Graphic tees that don't make sense but people still wear them :| Sweatpants with stilettos WITH messy hair, no makeup... (whaaaaaaaaaat???? Makes me want to cry!)

I'm with you on all of these. Those belts look like weightlifting belts and serve no purpose...functional or fashionable.

 

[ShauntyXD]

·Uggs
·Crocs
·people who dress COMPLETELY in American Apparel (i can be guilty of this on lazy days...-.-)
·high-waisted american apparel skirts
·Shorts with tight/leggings underneath (if u have ugly legs don't wear shorts at all)
·sunglasses when it's not sunny or when you're inside (LOL in the rave scene this usually means you're a crack user, so it makes me laugh when i see 'normal' ppl wearing sunglasses inside)
· fake juicy couture/gucci purses (if u can't afford the real thing don't get anything at all, don't give money too ppl supporting faked items)

 

[pumpkincat210]

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Originally Posted by cupcake_x I never said that they shouldn't, or that ALL mothers don't have time to. I completely agree with you. Mothers SHOULD be able to do all that and have "me" time. But I do have a point that a lot of mothers simply don't have time. My mother is a single mother who works full time, goes to school AND homeschools her children, not even counting that she has to clean, drive her children to work, etc... And while I really wish she did, she doesn't have the time to lock herself in the bathroom and do a spa treatment.

It is extremely important for moms to pamper themselves. After having a baby things can get androgynous if you aren't careful. Their is nothing sexier than a put together mom with children. It may sound a little sexist but it's true, would your significant other like to come home to someone that looks grody because she's been babysitting all day? You can pamper yourself and keep the kids safe and entertained if you are talented. i've done it!

 

[mollythedolly]

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Originally Posted by cupcake_x It's nice to dream about, the unfortunatly most mothers really don't have the time, even if they have the desire to.

I guess that's true, but I'm talking more about when you freely spend $30 on manicures/pedicures every week for your daugter, then feel guilty when you buy your $5 Revlon nail polish (for a DIY manicure) when it isn't on sale.

 

[rocknroll_lies]

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It is extremely important for moms to pamper themselves. After having a baby things can get androgynous if you aren't careful. Their is nothing sexier than a put together mom with children. It may sound a little sexist but it's true, would your significant other like to come home to someone that looks grody because she's been babysitting all day? You can pamper yourself and keep the kids safe and entertained if you are talented. i've done it!

I don't think that you can make a generalization that it is ''extremely important for mums to pamper themselves''. That might just be you but I think that it is ignorant to say that it is extremely important, what is extremely important to some mothers is making sure that they have enough money to buy food for their children or that their children are safe. Also it may surprise you but some people believe there are more important aspects in life than looking good, there is no harm at all if you do want to ( I do, plus many others do, obviously this is a make-up forum) but other people might care for other things. I think that we should be accepting of people however well they 'pamper' themselves, it is narrow-minded to assume everybody has the same aspirations for their life.

 

[pumpkincat210]

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Originally Posted by rocknroll_lies I don't think that you can make a generalization that it is ''extremely important for mums to pamper themselves''. That might just be you but I think that it is ignorant to say that it is extremely important, what is extremely important to some mothers is making sure that they have enough money to buy food for their children or that their children are safe. Also it may surprise you but some people believe there are more important aspects in life than looking good, there is no harm at all if you do want to ( I do, plus many others do, obviously this is a make-up forum) but other people might care for other things. I think that we should be accepting of people however well they 'pamper' themselves, it is narrow-minded to assume everybody has the same aspirations for their life.

Of course having food and the needs for my children come first but it is important to be pampered occasionally at least. Nearly every woman I have talked to, including my mother feel better after just a simple pedicure. My life goal isn't to look good but let's face it- taking care of yourself and spending time on yourself are important. I gave my mother in law a makeover one day, she never wears makeup and still doesn't, but she was really grateful and I could tell she felt differently about herself. Even her husband was surprised and liked it. It refreshes and rejuvenates you and makes life a little more tolerable at times. I'm not talking about people being accepted on the premise of glamming up oneself, like MLK said we should be judged on the content of our character, but if we never pampered ourselves most of us would be MISERABLE.

 

[Mel913]

the pants/sweats that say $hit on the butt area lol

 

[pumpkincat210]

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Originally Posted by Mel913 the pants/sweats that say $hit on the butt area lol

Yes! Those are tacky especially when the person complains that someone is looking at their butt.

 

[sexychefva804]

Bottom line, if you are a member of this group, you are responsible for aspiring to look good and feel good. Furthermore, you are responsible for sharing that with someone. Not only pertaining to making recommendations for make-up, but by telling that person that they are appreciated, offer to do the dishes if they feed you, take the vacuum from them, watch their badass kids if necessary. Sometimes the effort to help is a relief to that person. And for some, that is good enough.

 

[rocknroll_lies]

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Of course having food and the needs for my children come first but it is important to be pampered occasionally at least. Nearly every woman I have talked to, including my mother feel better after just a simple pedicure. My life goal isn't to look good but let's face it- taking care of yourself and spending time on yourself are important. I gave my mother in law a makeover one day, she never wears makeup and still doesn't, but she was really grateful and I could tell she felt differently about herself. Even her husband was surprised and liked it. It refreshes and rejuvenates you and makes life a little more tolerable at times. I'm not talking about people being accepted on the premise of glamming up oneself, like MLK said we should be judged on the content of our character, but if we never pampered ourselves most of us would be MISERABLE.

I understand what you are saying but for example my mother wouldn't feel better after having a pedicure, I think that maybe it is a cultural difference here (correct me if I am wrong.) I'm from England and pampering ones self isn't really, hmmm popular? We're kinda scruffy, I mean I don't know anybody who has had a pedicure and everyone is as happy as larry, I just mean that people I know tend to get joy from other things.

 

[thewickedstyle]

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Originally Posted by rocknroll_lies I understand what you are saying but for example my mother wouldn't feel better after having a pedicure, I think that maybe it is a cultural difference here (correct me if I am wrong.) I'm from England and pampering ones self isn't really, hmmm popular? We're kinda scruffy, I mean I don't know anybody who has had a pedicure and everyone is as happy as larry, I just mean that people I know tend to get joy from other things.

I would agree with you that is a cultural thing. I live in Mass and work in an affluent town outside Cape Cod and everyone goes to the spa every week. I cannot name one friend or co-worker who doesn't have her hand and feet done every week; you just don't go without around here! And it's French or funky French all the way...

What seems like an extravagance in some places can seem like the norm/necessity in others... it's all in what is cultural or even trendy at the time.

 

[pumpkincat210]

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Originally Posted by rocknroll_lies I understand what you are saying but for example my mother wouldn't feel better after having a pedicure, I think that maybe it is a cultural difference here (correct me if I am wrong.) I'm from England and pampering ones self isn't really, hmmm popular? We're kinda scruffy, I mean I don't know anybody who has had a pedicure and everyone is as happy as larry, I just mean that people I know tend to get joy from other things.

i understand where you are coming from. I should have used the word pampered more broadly. A better statement would be "taking time out for oneself to enjoy life's pleasures, whatever they may be for you". and i certaintly didn't mean to offend anyone.

 

[KikiB]

Back on topic:

EMO. I hate this. It's suburban kids whining about stuff, with tight pants, guyliner, tacky hoodies, and the hair. There's this blog called Demonbaby which did the "Myspace Stupid Haircut Awards" and his point in the 2nd edition was that most of the bad cuts on myspace are the same haircut.
Boho-chic...it just looks sloppy. I was involved in drama in high school and man oh man many of the people LOVED the look and thought that because they were free-spirit Thespians they could get away with it. NOBODY CAN. Get over it.
Uggs-Supremely Uggly. My mom got a Costco knockoff pair though and it's for practicality for her as she's got some horrendous frostbite on her feet so she needs the warmth.
Crocs-I have to see the horror every day as FAMILIES come in wearing them, and we have a Crocs kiosk at my mall

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The wannabe gangsta look-between the double oversized rhinestone tees that usually have Bugs Bunny or other cartoon characters smoking and all evilified, the baseball hats that still have the stickers and are worn at all sorts of angles (I am a purist-wear the baseball hat like the baseball players wear them), and oh yeah, the jeans where the inseam STARTS at the knee, it's ludicrous. There was some guy wearing those kinds of jeans yesterday on my bus-they were worn at the waist, so not a ton of boxer showing, but the back pockets must have been a foot long and the inseam STILL started near the knee. Even worse was my cousin, who was my age, doing it.
The scene girl look-bad graphic tees, skinny jeans, ballet flats, those wide headbands, et. al.
Birkenstocks in general, which leads into sandals with socks...it's a bad Seattle trend.
North Face Denali fleece-Half the kids at my high school owned at least one.
Sweatpants or pajamas in public-Seriously, not all Seattleites dress badly, but it's a poor reflection on us. I will get sorta dolled up to just go to the grocery store-as in put on decent clothes, make sure my makeup is all touched up, and so forth.
Le No Makeup Look-Sorry, but if a look is a no-makeup look I will not subscribe to it.

However I love people who wear things that are a bit eccentric and have confidence about it because you gotta stand out!

 

[j_absinthe]

So I can't be confident and eccentric whilst rockin' my crocs?

Chick, plz.

 

[cno64]

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Originally Posted by KikiB However I love people who wear things that are a bit eccentric and have confidence about it because you gotta stand out!

I totally agree!
If someone wears something unconventional because he/she genuinely likes it, to me that's individuality.
However, when all of the "eccentrics" start to look alike, that's kind of defeating the purpose ...