Perhaps you should spend about a week where I live. Yes, actually, I have seen that woman. And I have seen those situations on more than one occasion.
When people cry that the government should help them, they are basically saying that "I" should help them. The money the government gives them doesn't just magically come from the air, it comes from my pocket. And, I'd be more than happy to contribute fairly across the board to issues that were important to you as well. Unfortunately, that isn't going to happen. So, I am telling you where I would prefer my money spent. That is all. And, no I don't want it on abstinence-only sex-ed, etc. I'd prefer it to go to teachers, increasing funding for education, the military and some type of healthcare plan that is beneficial to people without debilitating us.
And, just to be clear. The government didn't help me get to where I am today, that is for sure. So, no, I don't feel an obligation to help them out based on any proportionate value. I didn't take shit from the government. All the government did was take from me to give to others. Even when I didn't have it to give. So, please forgive me for being annoyed with the process.