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[Paramnesia]

Re: Getting approached by guys??

Oh I fully agree. It's not to be noticed but if its just because you have nice boobs or ass, it gets a little annoying. If a guy notices you as a whole it can really make you feel good about yourself.

Once when I was walking down the street in the CBD two guys stopped me to say I have the nicest rack they've seen... yeah didn't go down to well with me.

 

[babydoll_020]

Re: Getting approached by guys??

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Originally Posted by Paramnesia Oh I fully agree. It's not to be noticed but if its just because you have nice boobs or ass, it gets a little annoying. If a guy notices you as a whole it can really make you feel good about yourself. Once when I was walking down the street in the CBD two guys stopped me to say I have the nicest rack they've seen... yeah didn't go down to well with me.

Yeah, a while back when I pretty much had non existent self esteem, didnt talk at all cos i was too shy, and like zoned out when a member of the opposite sex was around, I use to think just at least the slightest bit of attention for the fact that you exist on this planet was good enough...

But after I started dating guys and what not, I feel that the excess attention on a persons apperance soley is equally detrimental...At first, I enjoyed the fact that guys were paying me compliments, and giving me the attention that i thought i had worked my butt off for... literally.. to feel good about yourself that is..so stuff like goiing to the gym, eating right, etc. But after a while, I started to feel like I didnt exist internally..Like I was and am some object of male affection... It almost makes me feel like Im a commodity, a good.. So I guess you have to be careful what you wish for!

 

[Paramnesia]

Re: Getting approached by guys??

That's very true, I unfortunately haven't found a guy who doesn't make me feel like that (who isn't family, taken or gay)