8 times a day is ridic! But good for you, man, lol, that's lucky if you've got the time and er.. skill? I'd say I only masturbate a few times a month, with or without a boyfriend. I can get myself off better than anyone else can, but it still takes the help of tools of sorts, lmao! I can't just use my two hands.
My situation is similar to Sabrunka's.. except I do get off during sex sometimes. It's just pretty rare. I'm not sure what the problem is. One issue I know is that I have to have simultaneous g-spot/clit stimulation to get off. Annoying. >[ Otherwise, I know a lot of it is nerves. It's hard to not think, and sometimes if I manage to not think, I feel stupid afterwards. Ah, well.. I've got the rest of my life to get sex/masturbation right, lmao!
Rambleramble.