Masturbation...

[chocolategoddes]

Has anyone been able to "masturbate" without direct stimulation of the lady parts?

Sometimes if I just think about it, I can sorta feel it... but I'm not patient enough to see if I can orgasm from it.

 

[TISH1124]

Does....yes.....ummmhummmm....Sure DO! My dh gets so jealous at times...Bless his Heart!!

chocolateGoddes.....Yes I have many times...and have orgasms as well..the mind is a powerful thing

 

[Fataliya]

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Originally Posted by chocolategoddes Has anyone been able to "masturbate" without direct stimulation of the lady parts? Sometimes if I just think about it, I can sorta feel it... but I'm not patient enough to see if I can orgasm from it.

Nope, never been able to do it with just my mind. That would be awfully cool, though.

 

[Mabelle]

ive been with my bf for 4.5 years. I have no sex drive and sucks. i seem to psych myself out during sex now a days. Right when i think im going to have an orgasm i'm like "WOOT! here we go!" and then poof! it's gone.

that being said i masturbate 1-2 a month. sucky.

 

[Holy Rapture]

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[CherryAcid]

I've just discovered this thread!
I love masturbating and i tend to do it in sessions like one week i can do it every day(usually if ive been freshly waxed and im feeling good about myself) and other times i will be like "hmm its been 3 weeks since ive done it". Even when i was in a relationship i was doing it a lot(ex was impotent!!) i hate when guys are weirded out about their gf getting herself off.

The thing is i have never had an orgasm, EVER! I get really close then i have to stop cos it gets unbearable. I love sex cos i love the build up and feeling like im close(and yes i do fake it with some guys) but ive still never come

I'm working on it tho and i just love practising!
Now sometimes when im having a sexy dream i start clenching and im sure ive gotten off. Anyone else experience this?

 

[Lapis]

Mr Wahl and Hitachi are my friends and I use those bad boys 2-3 times a week, sometimes more.

 

[CLAIRENDELLE]

wowzers! You're a sex machine

 

[kabuki_KILLER]

I don't think I can handle 8 times a day... I don't even really think about any urge every day. ^^ I need help getting in any sort of mood.

 

[MissResha]

ahhh, nothing like a lil morning rub off session

i'm extra light on my feet today.

and i totally agree with a poster above who mentioned waxing. i know when things are bare down there, it feels so much better. rawr.

 

[cupcake_x]

2 words: Shower head.

Or tub faucet, either works good.

 

[kaliraksha]

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Originally Posted by TISH1127 Does....yes.....ummmhummmm....Sure DO! My dh gets so jealous at times...Bless his Heart!! chocolateGoddes.....Yes I have many times...and have orgasms as well..the mind is a powerful thing

Oh my goodness, Tish! You should really try reading minds or moving stuff with your mind with that kind of brain power...

 

[malaviKat]

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Originally Posted by chocolategoddes Has anyone been able to "masturbate" without direct stimulation of the lady parts? Sometimes if I just think about it, I can sorta feel it... but I'm not patient enough to see if I can orgasm from it.

Hahaha... this is the best board ever.

And yes.

And yes, it's awesome. I am the bionic vagina!

 

[Rennah]

everyday... whenever I can... whenever I'm alone... at night in bed, in the morning in bed, in the shower, while watching TV, while browsing Specktra... etc!

for me it's really relaxing & calming.

 

[cupcake_x]

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Originally Posted by Rennah everyday... whenever I can... whenever I'm alone... at night in bed, in the morning in bed, in the shower, while watching TV, while browsing Specktra... etc! for me it's really relaxing & calming.

I knew some girls found lipglass orgasmic but daaaang

Hehe I'm just pulling your leg, babe.

 

[snkatha]

When i was single i'd do it 2 times a day. But am with cantaffordmac i usually get some from my fiancee he's waaay better than solo. I still do it though to let of some steam sometimes.

 

[snkatha]

And yes! I've come without touching myself. All you've to do is pick your favorite fantasy and build on it, build on it and bam! It's better than manually trust me. Try it, you've to be patient though cos it's not instant.

 

[Kragey]

I am so pro-masturbation, it hurts. I actually gave a presentation on sex toys last month, and everybody loved it! I thought maybe I was insulting the audience's intelligence, but it turns out, a lot of them were insecure or unsure. I was glad to help.

Personally, I think masturbation is extremely healthy and has plenty of benefits for men AND women. One of the best things about it is that it helps you figure out what kind of stimulation you like, so you can enjoy sex with your partner better because you already know what does and doesn't work for you.

I also review sex toys and sensual products, although I keep that blog separate from the other stuff I'm in to (like Bollywood movies and make-up) because the taboo about sex and nudity could ruin my future career if it were connected to me.

But anyway, I love sex toys and give people recommendations all the time. My collection has gotten disturbingly large, even though I've given/thrown away half of what I've received, LOL!

 

[cupcake_x]

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Originally Posted by Kragey I am so pro-masturbation, it hurts. I actually gave a presentation on sex toys last month, and everybody loved it! I thought maybe I was insulting the audience's intelligence, but it turns out, a lot of them were insecure or unsure. I was glad to help. Personally, I think masturbation is extremely healthy and has plenty of benefits for men AND women. One of the best things about it is that it helps you figure out what kind of stimulation you like, so you can enjoy sex with your partner better because you already know what does and doesn't work for you. I also review sex toys and sensual products, although I keep that blog separate from the other stuff I'm in to (like Bollywood movies and make-up) because the taboo about sex and nudity could ruin my future career if it were connected to me. But anyway, I love sex toys and give people recommendations all the time. My collection has gotten disturbingly large, even though I've given/thrown away half of what I've received, LOL!

Could I see the link to your blog on sex? I'm in school to become a sex therapist, I love reading about what others have to say about human sexuality.

 

[k.a.t]

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Originally Posted by snkatha And yes! I've come without touching myself. All you've to do is pick your favorite fantasy and build on it, build on it and bam! It's better than manually trust me. Try it, you've to be patient though cos it's not instant.

Damn..I don't think I have the imagination or patience to so this lol

But that is a serious skill!