Hi, I'm Okami and I'm a pale porcelain princess and proud of it!
I'm very pale, super cool-toned (pink and blue undertones!) and seven years ago I decided to embrace my skin and love its natural color (and protect it from any more sunburns).
My skin is so pale you can actually see pretty much every vein and artery (blue and purple) that are anywhere near the surface of my skin. I avoid sunlight like the plague - I actually own (and really do use!) a parasol. The only sun exposure I get is while driving and walking to and from my car.
I have light brown hair with natural highlights that range from lighter brown to almost blonde to almost red and very light brown eyes that people tell me look almost gold. My lips are quite pigmented, and I usually have enough natural color in my cheeks so that I look okay, but if I'm washed out from being sick or tired, people freak, because my face looks so white without that natural color.
Whenever I've gone to try foundations (before I found Tarte's Smooth Operator in Facade) people tend to try to put colors on that are far too dark, because I naturally have quite a bit of color in my cheeks, and it makes me look less pale than I am. I'm also allergic to almost every blush I've ever tried, so it was hysterically funny when I'd go someplace to try foundation. After the MA would get the closest match to my skin and put it all over my face, they'd immediately reach for the blush, because I look ghostly pale (maybe ghastly pale, based on the reactions of various MAs) with just foundation on. As soon as they'd grab the brush, I'd tell them I was allergic to blush, and every single person (I kid not) had this look of horror spread across their face. Most of them would immediately protest that I
needed blush, because I was so pale. I had two women insist on putting lipstick on my cheeks, because they just couldn't possibly let me leave looking the way I did.
It's great to find some fellow "ladies of no color" who understand!