couturesista
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What did you say in the message?
What the hell is wrong with me??
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I can only speak from my own experience and i guess to give my 2 cents in about this i would say just slow it down..mamma always said if you look for something too hard you might find something you just wish you didnt but if u just let time takes its course things will happen when the time is right...and girl it is true. i have dated in my time and when i didn i never thought about ooh i like him let me get into a relationship. i just let it be and soon enough he's the one coming to me telling me he loves me and asking if i love him too.lol.
AdlersMommy22
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That's what I said in the message. I hope that sounds okay?
| Hey I kind of am really bad at talking and saying this kind of stuff in person or over the phone so I thought I would shoot you a message and hopefully clear some things up. I totally agree that we need to slow things down. I mean- we have only known eachother since friday! And Im not one who likes to rush into things.. it kinda freaks me out... and I think that we just kinda hit it off and were spending so much time togethe that thigns started going faster than both of us hand planned, you know? But I really really like you, Brent. I think you are such an amazing person and you're super attractive and... just the way you act about certain things its weird because you DONT act hte way Im used to guys acting- which is refreshing 
I dont know a whole lot about you- and you dont know a whole lot about me- we basically know basics about eachother... to be completely honest with you I have NEVER met a man who treats me like more than a disposeable piece of ass. I dont know if I'm just a douche bag magnet or what- but Im used to guys leading me on constantly and thats exactly why I havent had sex with anyone for the last 17 months... because Im scared to death of likeing someone and getting my heart broken...I dont want to get into a lot of detail because I'd like to know you better before I really tell you a lot about my past...but that has a lot to do with why I always ask you if you want to stop talking to me. I guess I'm just expecting you to be like "uhm.. I dont really like you and I dont realy think we should talk anymore." Which I hope if that was the case you would defenitley tell me- because I like youfrom what I know about you so far and I'd really like to get to know you better and hang out more. I feel really comfortable around you and I like that you enjoy the same kinds of things that I do... I havent been around a guy that I can just chill with and enjoy myself in a super long time.
I guess all-in-all Im just saying that I agree with slowing things down a bit.... and I hope that I'm viewing "slowing things down" the same way you are... I dont really know how you think of me or anything so Im just kind of going off things you've said and vibes I've gotton from you... which I hope is right. ? lol I hope that this makes some kind of sense to you and it's just a bunch of rambling- and hopefull you will message me back... I'm really looking foward to seeing you Saturday night (that is if you still want to)... Have a ton of fun tonight!
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That's what I said in the message. I hope that sounds okay?
Girl about town
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in my opinion i think you should slow down and ease off a bit, you need to play it cool with this guy!
Try to be confident and build up a relationship slowly with him instead of rushing into things so fast!. I know through experience that giving your all in the early stages of a relationship often ends in tears, so if you sleep with him again make sure you are safe physically and emotionally.
also although you say you want to take things slowly i think your message implies otherwise, if its meant to work out it will!!!!
Try to be confident and build up a relationship slowly with him instead of rushing into things so fast!. I know through experience that giving your all in the early stages of a relationship often ends in tears, so if you sleep with him again make sure you are safe physically and emotionally.
also although you say you want to take things slowly i think your message implies otherwise, if its meant to work out it will!!!!
AdlersMommy22
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Oh man, that sucks
I was trying to agree with him without making him think i didnt like him anymore.
Originally Posted by Girl about town
also although you say you want to take things slowly i think your message implies otherwise, if its meant to work out it will!!!! |
Oh man, that sucks
Girl about town
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sorry didn't mean it sounded that way maybe i am just reading between the lines because of what you had said already! i think just keep it casual and laid back xxx
AdlersMommy22
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^No, it pry did. Im all emotional I think now... maybe its the plan b. I think im going to open a bottle of wine and rent a movie tonight! ahhhhhh. I hope my mom picks up hot pockets for me tonight.... I dont know why i just really need some comfort food!
jdechant
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lol...don't worry..it didn't sound bad at all..i've been in this whole convo since the beginning..and I think you did a good job of getting your point out and letting him know how you feel without going overboard..
Off topic..but speaking of facebook..i totally found a specktra group!! haha..its too funny..and there is a question "what is your screen name?" and there are sooo many specktra regulars on there...haha..TOO FUNNY!!
Off topic..but speaking of facebook..i totally found a specktra group!! haha..its too funny..and there is a question "what is your screen name?" and there are sooo many specktra regulars on there...haha..TOO FUNNY!!
Girl about town
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aw im really sorry i said that and upset you i really didn't mean it that way, just don't let a guy you hardly know make you feel so emotional !!!
| Originally Posted by AdlersMommy22
^No, it pry did. Im all emotional I think now... maybe its the plan b. I think im going to open a bottle of wine and rent a movie tonight! ahhhhhh. I hope my mom picks up hot pockets for me tonight.... I dont know why i just really need some comfort food! |
aw im really sorry i said that and upset you i really didn't mean it that way, just don't let a guy you hardly know make you feel so emotional !!!
AdlersMommy22
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Jenna no way i want to find that!!! Im going to look right now!!!!
GAT- Please dont apologize, you're all good- thank you for your opinion
And you're probably right! haha
GAT- Please dont apologize, you're all good- thank you for your opinion
AdlersMommy22
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haha jenna thats awesome
Well you can look on my wall and see where brent wrote on it this morning- i added you as a friend
Shenanigans
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That is exactly what happened to me!!
I had an ear infection, antibiotics, still had my period... then WHAM! Sick as a dog, positive pregnancy test, and the ultrasound said I was already 12 weeks along (matching the time when I had the antibiotics.) And now I have an almost-9 year old, lol.
Seriously, this info needs to be mentioned when they give you antibiotics, especially since Shoppers has my prescription history.
| Originally Posted by jdechant
Well to me, it still sounds like he cares for you!! I don't think this is gonna change anything..I think that you guys are both taken back a bit..but thats normal....OMG, I totally got pregnant with Jaelyn on the pill as well...but I guess there is a little more to it then that...I was on the pill, but I guess the medication I was on (antibiotic) had cancelled out my pill (something that EVERYONE is supposed to know in the whole world but me??) Lol...so you could IMAGINE the shock when I didn't get my period when I should of...it was like hhhmmm..one day late..no biggie, I'll get it tomorrow..tomorrow came and went..DEFINITELY got more scared..didn't get it by the end of the weekend so thats when I took the test..yikes it was POSITIVE!! I was soo scared and cried for hours and hours ..lol..I got over it..and life with Jaelyn can't be better..but what a time that was.. |
That is exactly what happened to me!!
I had an ear infection, antibiotics, still had my period... then WHAM! Sick as a dog, positive pregnancy test, and the ultrasound said I was already 12 weeks along (matching the time when I had the antibiotics.) And now I have an almost-9 year old, lol.
Seriously, this info needs to be mentioned when they give you antibiotics, especially since Shoppers has my prescription history.
jdechant
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^^ I know, right? And then after I got pregnant I was at the pharmacy for other reasons, and they asked me if I wanted my b.c. refilled..and I was like, umm...no, I won't need it CAUSE IM PREGNANT! I told them how it was because of the antibiotic that cancelled out my b.c. and that nobody told me that it would do that...she was shocked cause she said that normally they put warning stickers on the pill bottle letting you know that...I went home and looked at my pill bottle...NO STICKER..lol..oh well, blessing in disguise...haha..I wonder how many kids have been conceived this way?? Lol...we should start a poll!!
couturesista
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What's the spektra facebook link?
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TISH1124
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Yeah but my Love Hate is for different reasons I'm sure
Most people ...
Love it...Because wheww Not pregnant
Hate it...Because it's just a inconvenient nuisance
ME!
Hate for the same reason above
Love it...Because it is the ONLY time of the month I can get in bed next to my dh and he knows NO means NO, so stop
me...YES I'm SLEEP!!!!!!!
I think even after it goes away I am gonna still pretend
| Originally Posted by jdechant
^^ Lol...its a love/hate relationship, isn't it Tish?? Happy when you get it for .5 seconds...can't wait for it to be gone after that!! lol... |
Yeah but my Love Hate is for different reasons I'm sure
Most people ...
Love it...Because wheww Not pregnant
Hate it...Because it's just a inconvenient nuisance
ME!
Hate for the same reason above
Love it...Because it is the ONLY time of the month I can get in bed next to my dh and he knows NO means NO, so stop
I think even after it goes away I am gonna still pretend
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