The one great thing about spectra, is the people here. You can come up, and tell exactly how you're feeling. And you will always get some feedback. Always. Or people wont start any sht with you, even if the have absolutely different vision on a thing.
Here people treat you with respect. I seriously felt i can talk about my feelings here. When you post any fotos, people see the best in you. People notice bright eyes, glowy skin, beautiful smile. Simply cause that's how that people are inside. Kindness always goes all the way around. Janice built the unique community here. I never saw anything like that. I saw a few other female forums, but i could never imagine coming up with anything there. I remember 1 line from scecktra, when a girl named laguayca (sorry if i just screwed up your screen name) said that being on specktra is like having a dozen of loving cousins, who gonna have your back, and put you on the right way sometimes.
So what about that forum? Nothing i believe. Imagine that girls, they are making such comments over every pic from here. Would they ever feel confident at their forum themselves? Would they ever feel like posting any pics for their mates? Would they ever feel secure? Doubt it.
None of us is perfect. No one is even close. But a 1 thing i always knew, is that the most important thing about a person is how is he/she inside. Cause nowadays everything about the appearence can be worked out. But if you're pretty shitty inside, nothing gonna help.
So lets enjoy what we have here, and realise how special this is. You all are gorgeous, just like i said. I think thats a really good idea to lock other forums, just like deep thoughts and love & relationship. Thanks to everyone for how you are. Dont give a damn about being posted there. Let them enjoy, thats all they have.