I agree that this has gotten a little out of hand, and awful mean! For one thing, I don't think anyone has said that Barbie is
the reason women feel insecure. That's a little bit, by which I mean a LOT a bit, of a straw man. Obviously, one doll can not make or break a person's confidence. But it isn't just one doll. It's our society as a whole, and I would like to see someone come up with an anecdote from their childhood about how they haven't been influenced by advertising campaigns.
Like I said before, Barbie is the symptom not the disease.
[It's true that there are lots of other dolls and other symptoms to address, but this thread was focused on Barbie] but the symptom brings the disease to mind and I think that is why people are so upset about this collaboration from the get go. I had Barbies when I was young. I liked playing with them. I loved dressing them up and doing their hair. My Jasmine Barbie from Aladdin was actually my favorite, along with a Hispanic one that I called Dolores because it had long, dark hair like my mom. I actually always dressed Jasmine really odd and mismatched and would be acting out the plot line for she's all that yearrrs before the movie was released. All I am saying is that Barbie represents
[to some might even be the epitome of] a social standard that a lot of people disagree with, which would make them upset.
I think it's rather mean to tear down my analysis of beauty standards by saying that I'm overreacting and looking for an excuse for my own insecurities. It's much more convincing to attack a person with counter-facts rather than insults. C'est la vie! In the words of Le Tigre, "we tell the truth, they turn up the laugh track."
Most of the time I am very comfortable with myself, but I'm not going to deny that I've thought I might be prettier if my nose were a little thinner, or my hair was straighter, or I didn't have freckles, or my arms weren't so hairy, or my feet were smaller. Those are the things I have been teased about almost as long as I can remember. They don't run my life. I have a very healthy sense of self-esteem, but they can creep in there.
I do agree that it makes no sense for people to use "all races, all sexes, all ages" to explain why they disagree with the Barbie collaboration. It's a complete contradiction.