I LOVE Benefit High Beam... It's very pink (not golden) so it's perfect for pale skin. It's also a pearl type product, not shimmer, so you're not going to have the appear of a disco ball, you look like you're glowing from the inside out. It's very versatile: you can mix it with liquid foundation to give your whole face a subtle glow, highlight cheekbones, forehead, tip of nose and cupid bow after applying foundation, it even works if you apply it on cheekbones before applying mineral foundation for a nice highlight. I've also used it to highlight my collarbones for a sexy shimmery look for going out. I'd highly recommend.
Oh, and I just got MSF in Petticoat, and it's GORGEOUS. Just enough shimmer/small particles of glitter to not be juvenile, and pink enough to flatter porcelain skin. Hooray for MSF!
Vanilla pigment is a staple for highlighting browbone and inner tearduct areas... I can't forget that!